Monday, August 10, 2009

Received News before Tuesday

Not often do we receive news before expected, but I received a phone call from the Medical Oncologist, Dr AJ, in St. Joseph, today. Dr. Silva had called him with the results of the lymph node biopsy. I wanted results and I wanted a plan and I wanted to fight, but when I heard Dr. AJ say the results were positive (cancer is in my lymph nodes)...it was a right hook and maybe even a combo with an upper cut. It really was the news that I was convinced I would receive after 3 physicians shared their strong intuitions with me, but it still hurts! Dr. AJ is energized because the news gives him an opportunity to put a plan in place and he quickly coordinated a busy week of chemo preparation for me. I met with the General Surgeon in Maryville today and had all my pre-op "stuff" completed. I will get my port (for chemo) tomorrow, Tuesday, in Maryville. I have an echo cardiogram in St. Joseph on Wednesday. Dr. AJ is awaiting the HER2 results from the lymph node biopsy (Sorry...I cannot tell you in my terms what HER2 is, but do know that it is a critical piece of the puzzle to identify the appropriate chemo drug) and we will hopefully have those results by the end of this week. If everything falls into place this week, I will have my first chemo treatment on Monday, August 17th, in Maryville, under the supervision of Dr. AJ.

My mother posted a comment about Fr. Kapaun and we will be praying to him and asking for his healing powers. We are proud to have a Conception Seminary graduate considered for sainthood.

Also, please say an extra prayer for a special friend of mine. She had a mammogram after hearing my results and she is heading back for an additional ultrasound tomorrow.

Hugs & Kisses! The Fight Is On!

24 comments:

  1. We're ready to FIGHT...The sooner we get started the SOONER we can beat this STUPID BEAST....i love you so much and will say many extra PRAYERS

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    TIFFY

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  2. THE FIGHT IS ON! You know they say "Everything happens for a reason", I know that if you hadn't found this, your special friend may have not went and had her mammogram so soon, thank you Jesus for giving her the wisdom to go and get hers, You may have Saved her life! We will be saying extra prayers today as we wait to hear from her too! Have I told you lately "CANCER SUCKS", I know you will be fine I just HATE what this is doing to you! Try hard today to have a very HAPPY BIRTHDAY and I know you will "FIGHT LIKE A GIRL"! God Bless you and Dear Father Emil Kapaun Please take care of my baby sister and Heal her COMPLETELY!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY, I Love you to the Moon and Back! XOXOXOXOXO Your Favorite SIS

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  3. Happy Birthday Mar! We love you!!!
    Kellie, Dave, MA&E

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  4. The fight is on and we are all there with you. Thinking about you and praying for you always. Sending birthday wishes, hugs and kisses too!! LOVE YA!! Alena, Kent & girls

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  5. We are praying and fighting with you. Happy Birthday!! We love you!!

    Dave, Lori, Sarah, Casey, Trevor, Megan, Kolby

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  6. Sending many prayers and fighting in your corner. Have a very happy birthday. We love you! Traci, Miah, Peyton and Kadyn.

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  7. Hey... I didn't know it was your birthday... HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you, HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you, HAPPY BIRTHDAY dear MARY... HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU. Make a wish and blow out your candles... Wishes do come true!!!
    Christy

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  8. Happy Birthday Mary. The fight is on and I'm sure it will be won. Fr. Kapaun is going to be extremely busy and I have no doubt he will hear all of those prayers. Love you so much and sending all my love to you, Dan, the girls and little Bo. Auntie Liz

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  9. Happy birthday, Mary!! I am praying like crazy for you!! It sounds like your doctor is a very caring person. The news, I'm sure, threw you for a loop because no matter what you expect, it still doesn't prepare you for the answer. You are lucky to have a beautiful family with the girls and Bo, and Dan will be a great "sideline" helper. Good luck with your fight! I will pray for you!!!

    Love and strength,
    Angie Lane

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  10. Happy Birthday Mary!!! It's time to fight and we are with you 100%. We love you and are praying for you! Mollee, Mike, Merric and McCain

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  11. Mary,
    Please hang in there! I know it was not what you wanted to hear but please know you can beat this as I did. I had two positive lymph nodes (which were HER2 postive). This just gives them more info on whether your tumor is responsive to hormones or not and which chemo will be best. I went thru chemo and immunotherapy with minimal side effects and I know you will too. Please keep the fighting spirit and positive attitude as that helps so much. We are all praying for you and we know with God's help, you will beat this and be an even stronger person than you are now. Hang in there and please call if you need anything.
    Sue
    p.s.
    Have a very Happy Birthday! I felt great after my port insertion and even went shopping, so please do something fun!

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  12. Hi - just found this awesome website! Count us in with you and your family with our prayers and hopes that God will heal you completely. All our experiences make us the stronger character that we are. I see that it's your birthday today. Have some fun and happy birthday!
    Dave & Frances, Jason McQuinn & family

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  13. The answers may have delivered a couple hard hits, but now you know what that stupid cancer has got and can prepare your punches and rally your team. Though port placement doesn't sound like the most exciting birthday event, I hope you are able to go celebrate a little afterwards. There's a lot of prayers coming from out west.
    Love you lots
    Doc

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  14. Happy Birthday to You!!!! May all of your birthday wishes come true and our prayers be answered.
    With love and prayers to you, Dan and the kids.
    Sharon and Hal

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  15. Happh B-Day Mary!! We all know how strong you are - You remember how strong you are! Our prayers are with you, Dan & the Kids. love Jim & Molly

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  16. Mary,Happy Birhtday to you..Our prayers and thoughts are with you , Dan and the kids.hang in there..I know you will win the fight..remember your an Eagle!!!Carolyn and Bob Westfall

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  17. Happy Birthday!

    All the kids say a special prayer everynight before bed for our cousin Mary:) Just know we are thinking about you and we love you!!
    Love, Chad, Jamie, Dominick, Christian, Mollie, and Lexie

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  18. Mary,
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Sometimes things happen in life and we are not sure why....but everything does happen for a reason. A phrase that I once heard - "The will of God will never take you where the grace of God will not protect you." You will win this fight.
    Amber, Terry, Trey, & Tucker

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  19. Mary,Alyssa wanted me to tell you she hopes you get better and that she is praying for you..and also to say HAPPY BIRTHDAY..Carolyn westfall

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  20. We are flooding the prayers from the North...hang in there and HAPPY BDAY...Love ya...Crock

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  21. Happy Birthday Mary! I have been praying for you and I am hoping despite getting the port today that you still have a good day!

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  22. Happy Birthday Mare-Dog!!!!! Some prayers have been answered today and some are still in the works. Hang in there and keep your chin up little scoot!!! "Fight Like a Girl"!!!
    Love ya,
    Renae

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  23. Mary,
    Think of you many times during each day and pray for God to give you the strength you need each day.
    Happy Birthday,
    Chris, Greg, the boys & Kelsi

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  24. Sending happy birthday wishes and lots of hugs and prayers from CB. Love you bunches. Diane and all

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